So, by the time our church's 3-day Christmas event came to a close Sunday night, you could tell. Everybody was wiped out. 

The planning. The preparation. Set-up. Tear-down. Materials, Resources. Funding. Logistics.

It's quite the outreach from the finished product. It's overwhelmingly impressive from behind the scenes.

And though he was smiling and everyone was in high spirits as things wound down Sunday night, the look on my worship pastor's face said exactly what was on everyone's mind. 

Where's a hot shower and a warm bed?

December is crazy for everybody.
Stressful for all of us.
Exciting. Disappointing. 
Joyful. Disconcerting.
Grateful. Uncertain.
Rejoicing. Mourning.

In churches across the globe, where ministry opportunities abound and the risk of burnout is high, it's all hands on deck... at time where many, if they could be honest, would rather not. They may not give much thought to actually expressing such feelings, publicly or in the strictest of confidence, yet pastors like many of us, would rather take the gratitude of our blessings and get away for a while, rather than gather all the more.

Getting through the month of December itself may require a miracle, whether it be in the spirit of Christmas or otherwise.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for those who are exhausted and on the verge... perhaps not from burnout, but the temptation to at least check-out temporily. May they be strengthened; body, mind, soul and spirit. For what weighs them done outside of ministry, may God provide supernaturally, for whatever needs and challenges they face; financially, relationally, emotionally. Pray they would be renewed, refreshed and revitalized. Though this can be a season of gloom and despair as a reality, pray God would enlighten and minister anew and afresh; shedding His glorious light upon the affairs of men... however trying the times may present themselves.

That would was designed to ruin us,
Would reveal Christ in us.
For we walk by faith,
Not be sight.
Out of darkness and into His marvelous Light.

- PNC

 As I continued to reflect throughout the day yesterday, on the message of greatness and servanthood and the understanding of what's involved in the process, I remembered the word, menial.

Servants do "whatever."

Whatever is required.
Whatever is necessary.
Whatever needs to be done.
Whatever is asked

Often lacking in importance.
Often lacking in glory.
Often lacking in recognition.
Often lacking in support and resources.

Seemingly never-ending.
Seemingly never appreciated
Seemingly never good enough
Seemingly never what I would like, hope, or desire.

We all dream of greatness. Of Aspirations. Of Hope.
To be people of significance.
To be people of influence.
To be people of accomplishment.

And in the midst of all of that, life. The everyday responsibilities. The menial. The mundane. The to-do list, chore-list and next-project around the house list. Help clean-up. Help with kids homework.

Life goes on. As does ministry. And the nagging sense that there is more... that we can't seem to get to because of the "stuff" for which we must continue to work at, just in an effort to maintain.

Yet, there is honor to be found, in faithful service to the "insignificant".
It's what propels us to the possibility of being able to serve in a seemingly, more-significant way.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, for those struggling in their service and role in life and in ministry. For those feeling overwhelmed by the mundane and insignificant, may God strengthen their hearts and minds afresh. For those broken and weary, from seemingly lack-luster "results" from their work and dedication, may God comfort them with the promise that His Word will not return void; that their service is not in vain. May God provide sovereignly for those frustrated by a lack of support, resources and encouragement. Pray the power and comfort of the Holy Spirit would refresh and revive their spirits... for what we feel insignificant, God places great value.

Whatever we do,
May we do as unto the Lord.
For His Glory.
Regardless of the value we ascribe the "insignificant".

- PNC

Indeed, God uses the foolish things to confound the wise.

In like spirit, I think God uses the simple things to remind us of who He is when the complexities of this life would have us guessing and questioning the entirety of the process.

Situations come and go. Frustrations and distractions cause some of them to last and linger longer than we would prefer. Decisions must be made; actions must be taken. The mental taxation of it all can keep us, even rob us, of appreciating this life He has blessed us with... to the point we often fail to enjoy and at times, LIVE, as we are meant to be living it.

Instead we live by our emotions and mindset, rather than the beliefs in our heart and the courage of our convictions that accompany them. This process can happen at any stage, but I think there can be a confluence of events when people find themselves somewhere near the middle. Perhaps, by age or financial position, somewhere in between along the corporate scale... parenthood (for instance, when you feel like you are dealing with teenagers before their numerical age is remotely close to that phase).

Where are you in life?
I'm in the middle.
Of what.
Whatever. Just in the middle.

See how quick that mindset can become dangerous?

Mediocrity lies in the middle. If we aren't careful, it can motivate us to propel quickly upwards or it can depress us to spiral downward, even more quickly.

Yet, it's the minor things... the 1,000 consolations of God, (if I can borrow a concept from the Kevin Sorbo movie, What If) that, if we remain alert and aware of God moving, ministering and speaking into our lives that will keep us moving forward. Whatever the pace and status of our journey, God always finds ways to interject reminders that He is with us, that He has plans and purposes for which we are to fulfill and whatever weighs on our hearts and minds, He has the resources to move on our behalf.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday for pastors feeling stuck in the middle. Perhaps in ministry, at home or life in general... whatever their struggle and frustration, pray God would bring comfort to their hearts and peace that surpasses understanding to their minds. For wherever they may be in their relationships, marriages and parenthood, may they be encouraged that God is working out the details. The struggles, the fights, the battles... as unpleasant and aggravating as they are, may God strengthen and gird them up; for what is meant to destroy them and take them out, even burn them out... may they resolve their commitment to God and the calling He has placed upon them to remain steadfast and firm. Despite feeling and perhaps literally being in the middle, may they be reminded it is only a season.

Faithful in service.
Steadfast in position.
Focused on the work at hand;
Laying our frustrations at His throne.
All to be used for His glory.

- PNC

Well, if you are watching the news at all of late, (I'm still keeping mine very limited) you'll recognize we are once again bombarded with the importance of who leadership surround themselves with as well as who they "tap" to serve with them, in positions of prominence. Whether they be department heads, directors, managers, VP's, this is always a difficult and interesting process.

People place different priorities on words and deeds of the past, belief systems from "back then" versus "here and now" and whether associations from "days gone by" are still in play and relevant today.

In the midst of all of this, are the conversations that continue to take place at the present time. Goals, dreams, aspirations, fears and hopes. What are the desired accomplishments and outcomes? What is feasible and reasonable? What is impossible and can be dismissed now?

The element of this conversation that always strikes me, isn't so much the conclusion that the decision-maker comes to, resulting in "passing" on a candidate, but the candidates' own recognition that they are not the person for the opportunity in question. Perhaps they don't feel they are the right fit, the right experience or qualifications or some other "right" factor that simply isn't there. Perhaps it's just not an aspiration; their contentedness and quality of life are such, they they feel they would be doing a disservice to their family, community and self to be doing anything other than what they are doing and where as well as for whom.

We've prayed over leadership teams and their advisors, after their formation, but what transpires before they become teams? Today, let us pray over the formation itself.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for wisdom, on behalf of the decision-makers and the candidates. As conversations take place, information comes to light and conclusions are made, pray the choices of who should be placed where and when would be made clear. Pray for discernment as leadership looks, not for the best or the brightest, but for God's will... for the person or persons He has ordained to step into those opportunities for ministry and leadership and service to the church and the kingdom of God at-large. May candidates as well, remain sensitive to the Holy Spirit, knowing when and where the open door awaits that they should walk through and when the should state, this is not of God; not for me, not now.

Clarity of purpose
Throughout the vetting process.
To know who God would have where and when.
To be used by God for His glory.
Sovereignly placed, to be effective for the cause of Christ.

- PNC

It's election day, in the United States. And I'm speechless. We place high expectations of people in public service, leadership and authority figures. We know they aren't perfect, but we expect them to present themselves perfect. 

And while Christians know and understand those in office may not be Christian (and certainly, this election doesn't seem to present candidates as Christian) and yet we base our ability to vote for them as though they were. Thus, "everybody" on social media is in a quandary.

I'm at a loss at Christians voting for who many to be a criminal.
And they'd be at a loss for those voting for the outrageous.
It's creating incredibly complex issues of distraught.. mentally and spiritual; and equally incredibly conversations on social media.

Both sides have elements seeking to understand each other and yet, both insist supporters are naive, uninformed, out of touch and straight-out missing and misinterpreting faith and morality.

The struggle is real.
The frustration is high.
The anxiety is unbelievable.

So, to read 1 Timothy 2: 1-2 first thing morning, was beyond comforting.

"I exhort, therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; for kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty."
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It's easy to pray for the most visible leaders and authority figures.
Presidents. Chairman. Owners. Bosses. Whoever is preaching on Sunday morning.

But what about the other levels?
Vice-Presidents?
Management and Supervisors
Associates, in lead positions of various departments.
Decision-makers at every level of influence.

Pray for them all; that we may lead a quiet, peaceable life. In all godliness and honesty.

This election day; candidates may not be honest, they may not be godly; but be weary of those who will do any and every thing they can to prevent you from living in godliness and honesty for you and your household.

And pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, in which America votes for the next few years worth of authority figures over this land. Pray for leaders and decisions makers of every kind, at every level... whether in charge of a department, organization, agency or country; may God grant to them wisdom and discernment. Pray for those needing the miraculous, in their heart and mind; that God would quicken them to live in godliness and in honesty. May God's will be carried out this day; may God heal this land as the people of God pray. And for whatever the outcome and the aftermath that follows, may God be with us, protect us, lead us and empower us.

To live for His glory.
Regardless of what we face in this world.
Greater is He who is in us
Than he who is in the world.

- PNC

There's one downside to writing a post titled "Crumbs". I had food on my mind for a good portion of the day. It didn't help any, that I was on the phone with my best friend yesterday afternoon, as we were both returning to "home-base" if you will, having been on the road all day and our conversation turned to food and cooking.

Somehow, though, as I reflected on the concept of crumbs, my brain made the connection to gleaners. Which immediately brought to remembrance the story of Ruth... which is an incredible story on so many levels. What's awesome about this story, is that while the harvesters let her glean from what was left over in the fields, Boaz grants incredible favor to Ruth.

In chapter 2, verses 15 & 16, we see Boaz offer this blessing.

"Let her glean from among the sheeves... and pull out some for her from the bundles, and leave it..."

He didn't want her gathering whatever she could; but he made sure that she was getting more than enough; and not just the scraps that remained. He instructed the harvesters to leave some of the best, that they had already gathered and pull it back off cart to leave for her!

Similarly for Associates in ministry should it be; that they have opportunity to glean and engage in real and meaningful ways in the works and activities of the church. Their experience in ministry should be abundant and full; rich in knowledge and conversation, creating opportunities whereby they might witness the incredible, as God works in their midst.

Yes, the opportunity to "follow behind" are appreciated; but to be shown favor and receive more than we asked or imagined to meet and fulfill the need in our lives is a life-altering experience.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that leadership and Associates would work well together. May their be a grace and an understanding as they proceed to fulfill the calling and vision God has placed upon them. May Associates have an experience as they participate and learn from senior Pastor that would equip them and prepare them for whatever is "next" that God has in store for their lives and ministry. May their work bring glory to God as they faithful work the spiritual fields.

Favor; as they glean
Working the harvest;
For the spiritual fields are ripe.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I hadn't planned on doing a "part II", if you will to yesterday's prayer regarding the Good Samaritan... that was why I included the Levites, as temple ministers under the leadership of the priests, in their response (or lack of one, as it were). Yet the more I thought about it, I couldn't help but wonder...

The temple minister had the same response response as the priest. I know it's just a story, but the whole point of the parables, is the element that their exists a "parallel" truth, if you will. So, I wonder...

Was their something gone wrong in the temple (church) culture that prompted both the priest and minister to pass over this man? (And not only that, went out of their way to avoid them!)

Was their something in the leadership style of the priest, that influenced those underneath him... perhaps, setting an example (albeit a wrong one) that the affairs of the temple were more important than the cares of the people?

Did they both share an attitude, that now that they were in leadership, they expected the actually work of offering care to be carried out by the parishioners and those in the fellowship that they were leading?

While this was a dangerous road, it was often traveled. The understanding (and perhaps assumed) is that these incidents happened with some sort of frequency. Who else had the "passed by on the other side?"

These are hard questions, I know. But what has changed?

Are churches not more busy than ever?
Do ministries and meetings not take even more time and planning?
Are we not more concerned with teaching the church how to be the church, rather than just stepping out and doing what God has for us?
Do pastors not use their influence to delegate many items and circumstances for someone else to solve or call for others to offer assistance?

As you consider these questions, keep modern day temple ministers, in your prayers, this #associatePastorTuesday. Pray that schedules and plans would not stand in the way of recognizing the needs and dire circumstances that surround us. Pray that church and its' leadership would be people of action, not just of vision... to not just see problems, but to resolve them. May the caring of those in need to be left to others, whether they be individuals or organizations, but that the church would be first responders. May associates and others in church leadership have the insight and boldness to speak, when Senior Pastors and head priests or executive leadership steps away or moves in directions that are out of alignment with Scripture. In this day and time, when it's easy to lose our influence and impact with the world, under the guise of popularity and political correctness, among many other circumstances, may the church remain true to what it is.

The body of Christ.
Representative of the person of Jesus.
To be used by God
In ways that would prompt a lost and dying world
To understand who He is and come into right relationship with Him.
Over these things, we pray.

- PNC

Technology is pretty incredible, when you think about it.

It is amazing what it helps us accomplish.
Even more amazing, it what it helps us avoid.

In the process, it creates some a level of creative excuses that all to often can go unchecked.

Missed call because phone was still on vibrate. It never rang... it went straight to voicemail. I didn't know I had a voicemail until hours later. I was in a building with poor reception; I didn't get your text until I left, hours later.

Then there's this...

A guy quit his job Monday morning. No big deal; happens all the time, right? Well, it threw a kink in the schedule for a few hours. Fortunately, it worked out and I met up with owner sooner than expected; instead of the guy I was waiting on. When I found out he had quit and that was the reason he was a no-show, the next part I didn't see coming. He quit, via text message. Yes, you read that correct.

Here's the part of the story that made me chuckle... Tuesday night, the guy returns my call. He didn't know it was me that was waiting for him Monday morning.

Schedules, deadlines, responsibilities; places to go, people to talk to and things to accomplish. Yet how often, we miss the message God has for us because of all the static of life that interferes and interrupts. If it happens for you and I, how much more for pastors and church leaders!

Pray, on this #associatePastorTuesday (for the hours remaining, my apologies) for the struggles and distractions of life that confront and attempt to stand in the way of hearing the voice of God. Pray for those pastors having difficulty staying focused and grounded in prayer, in the Word and in the high calling which God has placed upon them. May their not be overcome with fear, anxiety, worry or angst, but trust anew and afresh where, when and why God has positioned them where they are and what they are to accomplish.

For it is not about us
But fulfilling the plans and purposes He has called us 
And anointed us to complete.
For His glory and honor, we pray.

​- PNC

We all have out days where our interactions with various levels of authority don't go so smooth. On both sides of the table, tensions can mount, feelings and frustrations can dictate words and actions and the justification that follows. Much can and often does, stand in the way of open and reasonable communication.

Consider this intro in light of a message that one of the students shared in a chapel service, at a nearby Bible college. The concept was so profound, the college president posted it on social media.

Austin, the young man who preached this particular chapel service, stated the following regarding authority:

"If you believe you are David just waiting until God gives you Saul's bigger, better ministry position, but are unwilling to serve like David served and love like David loved right now, you aren't David, you are Saul 2.0"

Wow.

Whether in minstry or the marketplace it's easy to look and even comment, who we could do different, better and whatever, all while being nicer in the process. I know I have... more recently than I care to admit. This is dangerous ground, for indeed, Saul in his latter years, took a terrible turn. And Austin is right. If we aren't careful, we risk not only becoming like Saul, but perhaps an even worse version. 

That thought alone, cuts to the quick. Which is probably as good a point as any, to turn to prayer.

Join me, despite, the lateness of this post, in praying for pastors, as well as Christians... whether we are in place of authority or subject to authority, may God help us to lead as David. Pray that we possess a heart towards the things of God, as David did. Pray for a boldness to appropriately speak to the truth to those seated in places of power; while recognizing the respect that comes with that position... the same we would expect if we were in that place as we sometimes desire. Pray for open line of communication and understanding; that tension and frustration, while it exists, would not become a hindrance to what God desires to accomplish in and through our lives, as we work together for His glory; whether in ministry or in the marketplace.

May we be David 2.0,
Rather than Saul 2.0.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

While browsing through social media last night, someone posted on a pastor friend's page and thanked him for making their church culture "feel like home." Upon reading the comment, I think you'll agree the appropriateness of it all, considering, that earlier in day I felt led to write about home for today's post (which was brought on by a brief couple of texts with my brother, about moving)

I've moved a handful of times, both away from my hometown as well as back and although there is always a certain excitement to the process and prospect of possibilities, it truly is a tough and challenging decision. Then I consider how often pastors move. I have friends my age, that have pastored in 5 or 6 communities. Just in the past year or so, I've witnessed 5 or 6 friends go through this process, as God has called them to and placed them in ministry.

It seems like it's a different process from moving for work-related reasons, although it's the same thing. Perhaps it's the "calling" part of the equation, that seems like it would make a case for a greater level of discernment, in order to make the right decision.

For whatever reason, and maybe it's just me, moving for the purpose of ministry seems a much more intimidating decision than simply moving for a job or something career-related.

That said, for the believer, Heaven is home. We are travelers here, aliens and strangers, as the band DeGarmo & Key sings.... just passing through. When we gather at church with other Christians, it should feel like home. It should also be just as inviting for anyone who may stop by, as we extend the love and grace of Christ to a world in desperate need of Him.

Thus, pray with me, this #associatePastorTuesday in these two regards. Pray that the church culture would indeed feel like home, for the believer. While no church is perfect and without difficulty, pray the love of Christ would permeate that environment; that friendships would be cultivated and that people would be drawn closer together to Christ and closer together, through Christ. May iron sharpen iron. In addition, pray for pastors who are in the process of moving or transition. May fears and hesitations be laid to rest and that God would lead, guide and direct their steps. May their be a clarion call upon their lives as they respond obediently to what God has in store for them to accomplish and where He has opportunity to place them; to fulfill their mission on behalf of the kingdom of God.

For where two or three are gather in His name;
He is with them, in their midst.
For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Yesterday, I took the day of work and the results were amazing. Nothing in particular, happening or emergencies to handle. Just a scheduling opportunity to spend the day away from life. My friend asked what our game plan was, when I told him I was planning on taking a day off and replied, we'd either get caught up on some stuff around the residence or get lost. His advice? Get lost.

There will always be things on the home-front to take care of; when life starts handing you situations for which it's hard to gain some perspective, it's time to step back. Sunday night after church, my wife and I decided to sit on our small, lighted deck and talk...something our schedule hasn't permitted in quite a while. That was around 10pm. Next thing we knew.... wow, it's midnight? Either coming up on or shortly after, and we didn't realize we were sitting out there for two hours.

Yesterday, we didn't quite get lost so much as, we stayed local; and except for the 40 minutes or so we were at the residence prior to picking up the oldest from school, we stayed away. It's somewhat amazing, just what can transpire in 24 hours.

I feel as though I actually got two quality nights of sleep. But otherwise, not much has changed. A couple of very minor matters are off my radar screen and a couple of major issues remain unresolved. But that's okay.

God has it sorted out. And the words from two incredible sermons on Sunday are stilling ringing in my ears. The fact that you are still making it, is proof that God is with you. The fourth person in the fiery furnace of Scripture was only visible to the King, yet the three who were in the fire were the ones who emerged with a trace of evidence of ever having been anywhere near there, let alone in the midst of it, at a temperature 7x that of normal. Amazing.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for those struggling to find some peace and perspective. Pray for the situations and circumstance they face, where there's seems to be distraction and confusion; or perhaps just the unknown that never seems to end with some clarity. May the come to realize the importance of stepping back from it all for a moment, casting it at the feet of the cross and allowing for a time of refreshing and renewal whereby God can minister and remind them... He is with them, even in the fires of life where the heat factor has multiplied. May their be a protection over their hearts, minds and lives; that Christ would show Himself present and at work in their situation.

Christ on display,
No matter our trials.
Freedom in Him
For His glory.

- PNC

Some thoughts from yesterday...

Everyone knows where centered it. We can find the bulls-eye, we know when someone is the center of attention (or always has that desire); we know when someone is self-centered and correspondingly, can easily spot those who are Christ-centered. Somehow, dead-center often seems fairly obvious.

Conversely, on the edge, is also fairly easy. You know when you are getting close; we know where the boundaries are. We know when someone is on the fringe; Usually you can tell when something is amiss, to the point that breaking might be in the near future.

It's the middle that can seem like the Bermuda Triangle. Wherever everything come together. It's a sense of loss and nothingness. Seemingly no direction. Possible obscurity. Felt by children, who are neither the oldest, nor the youngest. Felt by travelers with no landmarks nearby to speak off, by the work who feels their project will not be complete anytime soon, even though they have been working for quite some time. It seems to be where everything gets stuck, oddly enough.

Of course, pastors and leaders aren't immune. Not having control of the situation, not being the decision-maker in the room, sometimes not even being a part of the discussion. These can all lead to sense of insignificance, even though you remain an integral part of an operation.

So, pray, with me this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors feeling lost and stuck, in the middle of life, in the middle of church. Pray for a clarity, of who they are; of what they are to do; of where they are to go and the plans God would have them fulfill. Pray for a strengthening of their spirit and a renewing of their mind. Pray for a sense of focus and determination; that indeed, whatever they put their hand to would prosper. May their be a girding-up, as they go about their work and their life; a clear sense of purpose and direction to be made known. Pray the attack of confusion and discouragement; distraction and frustration would cease.

A clear focus.
A strong will.
Plans for a hope and future,
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I don't think I've pulled a specific associate position to pray about prior to this morning, but a conversation over the weekend got me thinking yesterday, that perhaps I should write specifically.

I love music. I can't play anything, but I could listen all day. I remember the conversation I had with my Dad, during my teen years about why he listened to Classic Rock. My brother, a significant number of years older than I, grew up listening to the pioneer bands of Christian Rock... who laid the foundation for the mass appeal of the genre we know today, not to mention its acceptance within the church.

There's been a trend in some churches, for some worship bands to play secular music. Sometimes putting a Christian aspect on it, as it relates to the message or during offering, which I can understand to a point. Of course, some bands pull it off better than others.

The line in the conversatoin that bothered me, though, was the thinking that any music is okay to be used if it relates to that mornings' sermon. Covering Taylor Swift seems a little much and if a worship band covered a rap song, simply because it related... I'm having a hard time processing that one.

I understand the appeal for music that grabs attention though. Many a times, I've listened to sermons in my own church and either during service or upon exiting, I've thought of many great Christian bands who've recorded songs and lyrics would have been incredible tie-ins to integrate into the service. And not just newer stuff; but moreso, the stuff I grew up listening too... back in the days of opening the inserts and seeing Scripture references that the song writers used as inspiration for their music.

Perhaps that is why, even to this day, there seems to be a power and anointing when listening to those bands. The words feel relevant and timely because they were grounded in Scripture. There are many talented musicians across all genres, musically and lyrically. While putting a Christian spin on secular music is interesting to hear; one doesn't attend church to hear a Christian spin on a secular message.

The Church's message is the Gospel of Christ. It is truth. For the music that is used that would contradict that message seesms like dangerous territory to me. I can't help but wonder if it isn't more of a deterrent than it is a trendy attraction piece.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for worship leaders. May God guide and direct them, as the prepare to usher us in to the presence of God. Pray that God would use them as they lead worship... not to be the worship leader, but to be the lead worshiper. Pray for churches to find the balance, in that worship be God-focused rather performance-based. May there be an anointing upon them; a powerful compliment to the message of the Gospel that is to be brought forth for the changing of lives through the work of the Word.

Worship
As it's all about Him
Not so much, about us.

- PNC

Being in the middle can be a difficult place.

Sure, there's an element of safety to it at times... such as traveling a multi-lane bridge or not wanting to fall out of bed. Otherwise, it can be... unnerving, depending on what's going happening.

When between warring parties...
When between opposing sides of the argument...
When between decisions taking different directions...
When involved in the process, but you are neither the decision-maker, nor the one affected by the outcome...

Let's not forget the obvious... one's place in the line-up of their siblings.

Associate Pastors play important roles in church operations and ministry. Their contributions are invaluable. Sure, the super-hero's of the movie are well-known, applauded and looked up to, but to each of them, there is a side-kick. An important, even critical relationship; that without it's existence, would result in a much different outcome... many of them, in fact. At a minimum, the dynamics and nature of how things unfolded in whatever circumstance was transpiring would shift, were the associates not in the picture.

Yet, as we've all witnessed, the main character and the associate have their differences, their disagreements and their fall-outs even. In reality, their relationship needs to be stable and healthy; an unshakable foundation that inspires confidence as the move forward as a team.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for the teams of pastors experiencing places of difficult. Whether in personal matters or ministry matters, pray for a calming in relationships and environments. Pray hostility and toxicity would flee and that the peace of God and the presence of the Holy Spirit would infiltrate the places in which they find themselves. May their be a grace extended by all parties, as they work through differences and seek to understand and find common ground. Pray for wisdom, insight and discernment as they talk out their perspectives and experiences. May the come together to seek the face of God.

May they accomplish more together,
Than they would working apart
For the power of a 3-strand cord
Used for the glory of God.

- PNC

I've been thinking a lot lately, about how people rise to positions and what unfolds as they handle responsibilities and progress through stages of their career, whether it be in the marketplace or in ministry. We all have our places and while our success in one area may be a barometer for success in another, it is not necessarily a guaranteed lock that such will be the case.

There's an old joke... those who can do, do; those who can't, teach.

We've all had or seen people who were good in their job, yet once they stepped up in position, something changed. Not always, but often. And much like in the marketplace, ministry can get dicey.

Good pastors can be not-so-great bosses.
Quality associates may break under increased responsibilities.
Great managers may struggle, if they were ever the owner.

Recognizing one's strength and weaknesses can be difficult to navigate. Correctly taking inventory of it in others can also be a challenge at times, as we go through the process of doing a day's work well. For times when tensions are raised; frustrations are realized and difficulty lies at the forefront of the matter, such elements can make a good day feel like a battle for the duration... for both parties.

Prolonged battles lead to fatigue. Fatigue leads to mistakes. Mistakes lead to greater frustration. And the battle cycles to a great level of prominence. Eventually this doesn't work out so well... a nerve-racking prospect in and of itself.

While nobody likes to consider that all is not well at church, between Monday and Friday, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, where truthfully, battles are cycling to greater degrees of frustration and difficulty. For tensions that are mounting; for conversations that are not going so smoothly; for decisions that are being delayed over wide-differences.... pray a covering of grace over these today. Pray cooler hearts and minds would prevail and the  calming of the Holy Spirit would permeate their environments. May God grant wisdom and direction in how things should proceed and matters be resolved. Pray a healing and restoration of relationship for those torn apart from having engaged in battle.

May what the enemy meant to divide
God would use to unite.
For a greater impact for the kingdom of God
And His glory.

- PNC

These prayers are increasing in number, so it's entirely possible we're covering certain aspects of life more than once now; I think there's been a time or two in similar situations, but I as pondered today's focus, in light of yesterday's prayer, I got to thinking again about Associate Pastors and those left to handle the affairs of the church during these times of transition. For what pastors face as my friends prepare to depart to the mission field; for those who have gone through the transition of my friends returning to the pastorate after a stint in missions; Associates have a huge responsibility during these times.

Such times are challenging. They are difficult. They are stressful, uncertain and exhausting.

Likewise, installations of new pastors are also challenging. Exciting, yes... but also stressful, uncertain and exhausting.

Something about these situations also seem more difficult than similar circumstances on the secular/corporate side of the equation. Job changes happen and companies and teams go through the same process; of finding someone new, who fits with the team and culture. And it's exciting, nerve-racking process for the one making the transition; the prospect of what's new, what's next, what awaits.

In light of eternity, such transitions also seem to possess such a greater depth of meaning and purpose. Purpose it's the calling of God is paramount to the matter; perhaps it's lives that hang in the balance as we are spiritually led by pastors and church leaders... it's not that these elements don't exist in the marketplace, for surely they do exist.

The difference is, the elements influence our decision in the marketplace.
In ministry, the elements are central to the decision.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday for these times of transition. Pray for pastors in the decision process of filling an open pastorate position, senior or otherwise. May God grant wisdom and discernment in bring the right candidate into the picture and placing them exactly where God desires them to serve the kingdom of God. Pray for pastors in transition as new leadership takes effect; may there be a grace in the process. Pray for smooth transitions; that ministry would be unhindered. May much be accomplished for the kingdom of God, as doors are opened and the excitement of the prospect of great impact for the cause of Jesus Christ unfolds.

Called according to His purpose
Despite plans that look different from ours.
For the sake of Gospel.

- PNC

Isn't it amazing how the mind works? Seemingly out of nowhere, it creates scenarios and pictures of possibilities and conversations, that sometimes may make sense and other times, seem way out in left field. As I traveled through an area yesterday, there is a road closure on my way, as a few miles later, they are putting in a round-about, at an intersection I'm going to drive through anyway... just not via the road I normally take. As I drove through and saw the signs, I imagined a group of friends who would travel through there for the first time.

One of the friends speaks up and says, road closure? Now where do we go? The individual goes on to state, that because of who she is, using a title that doesn't define her, but simply defines her relationship to a person of  position, how would she know where to go? Of course, my sarcastic mind  responds internally... just read the signs!!

Yet, unlike the road, where detours are always laid out when a closure exists (and sometimes the detours aren't so clearly marked) life rarely defines detours when certain paths are closed. You just know that some option or destination is not an available route to pursue, and so must go a different way about getting there or decide to do something different altogether.

How frustrating that must be, for one who doesn't look to God, the author and finisher of our faith. Even as I went to bed, less than 5 hours ago, pondering a decision, rather a potential decision in the very near future... I acknowledged, I can't do this on my own. I need help making decisions; choosing directions; recognizing the signs. He makes it all work for good; even our mistakes and thankfully, His grace is sufficient for my mistakes; but that doesn't make me want to willingly make them. I want to know before decision-time that I am where God wants me, doing what He has for me to do... lest I change the game and find out later, the game wasn't meant to be changed.

Even with our reliance upon God; such times are frustrating, agonizing and difficult to navigate. Hence we look to Him first and place our trust in Him, regardless; for the stress of this life without the help of the Holy Spirit is crushing to many and disconcerting to the rest. But there is rest to him who places his hope in God.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for those pastors struggling to make sense of the signs and those trying to understand where the detour they are on is taking them and why. Pray for a steadfastness of faith, unwavering in their commitment to trust God in all things, regardless of circumstance and its' appearance. Pray for those feeling lost, that God would like their paths and direct their steps. May their be a reassurance and a confidence anew, that God, is in fact, working all things together for good... even our mistakes and decisions of regret. For the past that haunts us; for decisions that bother us, for outcomes of the past that frustrate us, even when relaying the story... may the peace of God that surpasses all understanding comfort our hearts and calm our minds. Pray, that regardless of yesterday, that tomorrow would be hopeful and today would be a day of diligence.

May we live a life
Clearly marked by the hand of God.
For His glory, we pray.
In the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord.

- PNC

Every once in a while, I find myself reflecting on how life would be different, in the face of certain tragedy. Any prolonged thought of one's own mortality and you can't help but be humbled and consider yourself blessed... to have life, to have family, to have friends. Indeed, life is a gift.

If life on earth is a gift, then how much greater a gift, is eternal life through Jesus Christ? What adjective could possibly describe.

English novelist and playwright, Graham Greene sums it up this way...

"You can’t conceive, my child, nor can I or anyone the … appalling … strangeness of the mercy of God."

We all encounter our own difficulties and tragedies. One can't fathom theirs from another should our lots in life ever be switched... that you would live my story and I would live yours.

Yet, in the sovereignty of God, each gift of blessing, each loss of the same, is an opportunity to trust God and draw closer to Him.

As I reflected on on Spaffords' story yesterday, this succinct question came to mind.

We will one day, all stand before God. And after the one question, regarding our relationship with Christ, there will be a follow-up question; with two points of clarity.

What happened?

The two points of clarity...

...for the unbeliever: I gave you every opportunity to come to Christ, yet you did not.
...for the believer: I gave you every opportunity to bring someone to Christ; yet you did not.

Challenging questions, that are rendering me nearly speechless.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for the church body as a whole, as well as pastors and church leaders, that each of us would remain focused; that life is a gift and that God is sovereign. May there be an awareness about our lives to seize the opportunities to glorify God and to point others to Christ, that they may come into right relationship with God. God forgive us, for the opportunities we have missed. Help us, not to let more slip through our lives.

Life is precious.
Life is short.
Eternity awaits
With one simple response to God.

- PNC

The more quickly time passes, the sooner new opportunities come your way and prompt decisions to be made regarding them. Time does certainly seem to be cruising along.

There are multiple wedding anniversaries over the next week in my immediate family. There are two work anniversaries this week. The few months that the intern at our church has come and gone already. Plus, just 24 hrs ago, I was writing yesterday's prayer!

I threw in the bit about the intern, because, while our church still searches for a new youth pastor, the announcement was made that we have extended an opportunity to our intern, to come on staff, full-time! This is the second time, in the past 12-15 months, that we have brought on a 1st time pastor (last summer was children's pastor)

As Pastor shared the announcement, he referred to a concept from the book, Good to Great (which is a great read, if you haven't read it yet). The theory is, that if as an organization, you have the right people on the bus, (right place, right time) you'll be able to accomplish incredible things. Conversely, if you have the wrong people, whatever you to will be a struggle with limited success.

So this opportunity seemed like a good fit. As we've prayed in recent weeks and months regarding responsibilities, Chris will bring oversight to a number of ministries, with the formal title of Connections Pastor. This goes right in hand, with the Good to Great concept. Duplicating one's efforts, so that even more can be accomplished.

Even Scripture talks about the power of people working together, for they get a greater reward for their work. So one who can create and lead great teams and place people in authority who will do the same with their responsibilities results in exponentially extending one's reach, influence and impact... on a community, on an industry, on a society.

However, first timers in any role can be daunting. Exciting, yet humbling. Confidence-inspiring, yet anxiety-inducing. Grateful, but stressful. Thrilling, yet nerve-wrecking. First experiences, if we are not careful, can set the tone for one's life (or at least the next significant portion of it). Patterns, habits and thought-processes will influence in ways never before witnessed or understood, so to say this is a crucial time, is an understatement.

Moments like these must be covered in prayer.

Thus, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, for Chris, and many more life him; finding themselves in first-time pastoral positions. Whether they have just come on staff or are still in the first position as pastors, pray for a strength and a quickening in the spirit. May God use this time of learning, maturing and growth in their lives to be used for His glory. Pray for a grace for mistakes and mishaps made along the way; grace from others and for themselves. May patience and understanding be with them. Pray that good habits, sound though-processes and healthy patterns will be established early in, in these young ministries... that the foundations would be unshakable. That when trials and troubles and crisis moments of decision arise; they will seek the face of God; that the will humble themselves and prayer; that the will admit their need for help and advice and stick to the courage of their convictions. Pray in all things, their lives and ministries would bring glory and honor to God for all the years they serve the body of Christ and the kingdom of God.

Raise them up, God.
Not for themselves,
But to lead those around them
Closer to You.

- PNC

My day yesterday wasn't a typically day, so I didn't go through my usual process of prayer and reflection as time passed on. What's more, I didn't get off until later in the day, which occasionally happens. The downside to this, is finding someone to watch the kids, for those time when my wife has to leave for work before I return.

These are times, I'm glad I'm able to rely on my parents. Nearby, they, like if not all grandparents, love spending time with the grand-kids. And I am incredibly grateful they are able to help cover the gaps in our schedule.

Life gets busy for all of us and we all need help (some of us more than others, I'll admit... perhaps even to needing to be at or near the front of that line). Be that as it may, there are great dividends to be gained by having people in your life and on your team who have your back, whether working alongside or ready to step in and help when their number is called.

Much like Associate Pastors. We all know they play incredible roles, have important responsibilities and tons of things to do elsewhere, but for the team of pastors who can be relied on to step up to the plate when their number is called... they are worth their weight in gold, especially when their positive response is one of willingness and sacrificial in nature. Their ability to step in and cover the gaps, when needed, are greatly appreciated.

The balance; however, comes when such people and circumstances are taken for granted and not given the appreciation they deserve. It's a careful line to walk, even when the conversation never goes in the direction that would lead to severed ties and crossed boundaries. But the potential is there and thus, worthy of our prayer.

So, pray with me this #associatePastorTuesday, for this balancing act within life and ministry. For those Associates who are being taken for granted, pray God would strengthen their spirits and give them wisdom. If conversations need to happen to bring about change, may they be seasoned with grace, love and understanding. May the tensions subside, the bitterness and resentment flee as trust and boundaries are re-established.... or perhaps established for the first time. Meanwhile, pray for church leaders struggling, where perhaps associates are frustrated and or unwilling to cover the gaps. They may not be being taken advantage of, but difficulties are beginning to arise from whatever prevents them from stepping up to the plate. Pray pastoral teams and leaders would find this balance where it's out of control; find ways to strengthen it if they do have it and find ways to implement it if they don't.

For as goes church leadership,
So goes the church fellowship.
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC